It was the missing word. After in the last days the scandalous separation from Wanda nara and Mauro Icardi echoed in the national and international media and erupted with comments on the networks after being singled out as the third in contention, Eugenia “la China” Suárez He decided to break the silence and give his version of events.
Through various posts he shared on Instagram Stories, the actress defended herself in a lengthy writing, which reads as follows:
“I write this letter to lower the external noise of lies, mistreatment and inclined glances in the construction of manipulated stories to, once again, be the scapegoat for media violence.
I have been silent for a long time for various reasons, the main one being fear and inexperience. For not knowing how to name the level of lies and atrocities that are told to support the minute by minute television.
“I write this letter to lower the external noise of lies, mistreatment and inclined glances in the construction of manipulated stories to, once again, be the scapegoat for media violence.”
What is happening today has a much bigger and deeper story behind it, with which many women will surely feel identified. I have had to relate to men who I have always believed their words: that they were separated or separated, and that there were no conflicts. In this situation I feel an infernal deja vu, where I pay once again with my reputation for matters that are the personal domain of any woman.
A repetition that exposes my inexperience and, above all, the deep credibility that I gave to these men, who then kept silent, letting the wolves eat me. It seems that it is more credible for this society, knowing how it is they always drive, that I am the bad one, the one who deceives and not the one deceived.
“I have had to relate to men who I have always believed their words: that they were separated or separated, and that there were no conflicts.”
And it also seems that it is easier for a woman to hit me to download. The cost of sustaining the image of a happy family is paid by me, not the man who was irrational or slipped. At that price, everyone looks good.
I repeat my constant silence to preserve my family ties that have always been my priority, he played me against. But today I do not want to be silent anymore because I know that there are many women to whom this has happened to us and to whom the external gaze judges.
“What happened is a situation that I did not start, did not encourage and did not provoke. Having to tell this also speaks of the little privacy that women have. Meanwhile, a lot of harmful qualifiers asking for my head for a long time.”
What happened is a situation that I did not start, did not encourage and did not provoke. Having to tell this also speaks of the little privacy that women have. Meanwhile, a lot of damaging adjectives asking my head for a long time, where the weight of how I am judged is absolutely asymmetrical. Otherwise, it would be known that I was not the one who insisted and caused this situation.
I assume my inexperience, lack of understanding about much that surely I must learn from now on. But I won’t take care of myself and all the women who are used and judged always, of the attitudes of serial conquerors that these men have learned, and that later they know well to hide.
“It is striking to me that women do not see that the same grievances with which they describe me are those that an entire society used (and continues to use) to refer to them.”
As they say now, being empowered has nothing to do with money, with being sharp in networks and less insulting with the same terms that they judged you in the past, another woman. It has to do with being fair when speaking and, above all, break the silence.
I find it striking that women do not see that the same grievances with those who describe me, are those that an entire society used (and continues to use) to refer to them. The reproduction of that violence that you received in the past, towards another woman, to clean your image, does not make you any more astute; it just puts us all back in the same place.
Those who are with this profiting at the cost of my personal life and my artistic career, they will also be intimidated by the reproduction of false, malicious information and with the purpose of reproducing media violence towards me.
“And to all those who ‘cancel’ people, are you sure they are in a position to do so?”
Thanks to all the people who gave me support, who understand what I went through and kept silent in the past, letting injured people put me in unfair places and that today this is being repeated, but no longer with my silence.
I am a woman who is no longer afraid to assert my right to live free of prejudice. And hopefully this not only serves as a release, but also to reflect among us. And to all those who ‘cancel’ people, are you sure they are in a position to do so? “
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China Suárez broke the silence in the midst of the scandal with Wanda and Icardi: “I have had to relate to men who I believed were separated”